C many test not only the expected happiness of paternalness but also negative emotions - malice and despair, alarm and disappointment, shame and guilt appearance of child from the insolvency, and impossibility with them to manage quite often outpoured in aggression. The emotional burning down of parents became a widespread psychological problem. In a book fifteen mothers and three dads are divided by similar experience. Experts are psychologists, doctors and other specialists - the mechanisms of origin of syndrome of burning down, his signs, forms of his display, discuss - from послеродовой depression to psychical and physical exhaustion, and main - tell about that, how with all of it to manage. Important constituent of book - exactly recipes and practices of self-help.A "mother on a zero" will help to avoid submarine stones that can darken gladness of paternalness. A book needs to be read and that, for whom native or friends experience emotional devastation, depression, apathy. Realizing a problem, it is simpler to help itself and near.