Historically, it is difficult for women to enjoy sex and only a man should be active in a couple. We focus on culture, religion, rumors, media, and completely forget about the facts - we forget about ourselves. Social norms have led us to believe that:- Women are ashamed to desire sex, and even enjoy it - even more so.- Sex is more important for men than for women. – To please your partner is more important than to receive it yourself. - It's better to fake an orgasm than to sort things out later. It is not true. Psychologist and sexologist Karen Gurney says that we ourselves program our brains for certain sexual scenarios. And we can enjoy not only the climax of sex, but the process itself. Talking about sex is difficult, but couples who discuss intimate life and share their desires not only have better sex, but also relationships.Karen Gurney explores the nature of female and male desire, the factors on which it depends , and tells how to overcome the main problem - the gap between ideas about what our sex life should be and what it really is. The main thing to remember is that desire lives between people, not within one person.Publisher's layout saved in PDF A4.